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We are here. In the Old World. In Western Europe. Maybe our ancestors came through here, but likely not. Leisure travel wasn’t common for our family trees. 

A month of surprise, struggle, and success. A month where we got sick, where we got frustrated with local banking and getting our phones re-baptized to work on local ground. A month where I started a new job and where you continued your old one. New clothes, new foods. So much walking. So much exploring. Immigration forms and other paperwork to say we aren’t tourists. We belong here. We are residents. Not citizens, but good citizens. Grateful for the opportunity. Making a home a little every day. 

We just sent off our apartment application for a place that is just a couple blocks south of here. We want to stay in the neighborhood. Quiet, west of the chaotic city. A walk into the friction and a walk out. Near enough to see it but we away. The city on our terms.

In a week, it’ll be Christmas, our first without having to see anyone under the forced dictate of family obligations. It will be small for us, distant, maybe a little sad and desolate, but people will be coming to us in the new year. For now, this is our home, our tradition, our holiday. And if we are lucky, we will have gotten ourselves a place of our own for Christmas. 

Thank you for being there for me when all this was anxiety and illness and stress of a new job in a new country. I love you.

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A week from now we will be in the air. A week from now, we will be heading east, into a new life. A week from now, we start again in a new part of the world. Every hour we get closer to leaving what we’ve known for 20 years. We’ve sold our home and we are about ready to get rid of our cars. The anchors that he’d us here are being broken and discarded. For the first time in decades we are debt free. For the first time in decades we have a chance to reboot our lives. We  get a second chance, a currency that so few people get to traffic in. 

Even though the foreign language lessons are enough to throw my laptop through a wall. It’s only been a couple weeks, but I’m hitting that wall with verb tenses and pronouns spoken in accents that sound like audible black ice. 

It’ll be okay. No one is expecting us to learn immediately. Maybe it’s just the sense of gaining control over the environment. So much change so there’s the sense you need to have control over something, anything. 

But we will do it. We will land, get to our temporary lodgings. We will be disoriented, we will be putting our loves together a little bit every day. We just need to do a little every day. A little bit to make the new world our own. 

Thank you for coming with from the second I got the offer. Thank you for being part of this journey, of making this leap with me. I love you.

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We're 40 days out from leaving the country and I can finally come up for air. All the hoops with selling our home and getting our paperwork together are falling away. Thank you for keeping me centered and seeing the bigger picture. We are going east, to Europe. We are going to a new world in the old one. We are having a new adventure. This is a reboot chance that a lot of people never get. We can change so much. We can be liberated from so much. With a lot of our belongings shedded and sold and stored, we can try new tastes. We are out of a rut, together. Just us, a few suitcases, and the cats. Together. In love. On a journey. We've always been doing this. Now we have new sights ahead.  I love you.

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And all of a sudden our lives get turned upside down. Last Friday, I got the offer. Senior Writer. And relocation to Europe with it. 

We were out there, invited to see a slice of the world we had been to for a four-hour layover 16 years ago when we were traveling through Western Europe and I was delusional from a fever and the solid grip of a cold. 

But now, I was being recruited. And we had a 100-hour rush on the other side of the world. You enjoyed museums, I hustled through two days of interviews on three hours of sleep total. And I was fabulous. We had a day and a little more to explore, but it was a place where we felt we could live. 

We’d pare down the essentials. We’d start over in a way. A new life, although you will keep your job, which is going to help our finances. I get a job writing at a major studio. 

Thank you for this. Thank you for being brave with me as we make this leap. Thank you for supporting me. Thank you for being my wife.

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To my love, happy monthly anniversary. And by the time we get to 243, we will have big news. Potentially life changing. One that might put us in another part of the world. Thank you for being supportive on every day that has led to this moment. Thank you for going on this journey, being open to an adventure that could take us thousands of miles away. I don’t think I could have done this without you. I love you.